I'm one of those people who doesn't really use a whole lot of time on my appearance. I try to use my time more constructively. In the mornings, I sleep an extra 30 minutes and either my hair or make-up suffers. I used to get up at 6:30 and look absolutely wonderful for high school every morning. And, I definitely had more friends back then.
Now, I wake up at 7:00 and barely put on make-up by the time I get out the door (usually late). I hate feeling like I won't meet anyone because I don't look good enough, or I'm not skinny enough. I have no idea how I was so skinny back in high school. But, I can't tell you how fat I thought I was. I'd give anything to look like I did back then. I've been working as hard as I possibly can to get back to it, but it seems like nothing was working. I finally got off of the depo shot, and it's slowly coming off. I think once I fit back in my clothes, I'll feel much better about working on myself.